Saturday, February 21, 2009

Tell Me Quando Quando Quando

Of lately, I have been chatting with AK on a daily basis. Somehow, I feel disturbed over this. You see, AK and I first met each other through the introduction of a mutual friend three or four years ago. We, as a group of friends, watched a movie; the two of us shared a conversation for less than ten minutes. That was it, there was no exchange of numbers and no plan for second meet-up.

Fast forward to last few months of 2008, I received a message from AK through a social networking site. He wanted to confirm that I was in Singapore because he had seen me in a nearby restaurant. He promptly asked for my MSN address when I replied the message. That was the beginning of frequent chatting; we talked virtually everything under the sun. Soon after, he asked for my mobile number and started to text messaging. Just few days ago, he wanted to web-cam through MSN (which I politely declined); that was when it hits me, our relationship becomes .... too close.

One thing is, he has a girlfriend and he openly mentioned about his girlfriend often. Second thing is that I don't believe in purely friendship between a man and a woman to be in such a close relationship. I wish I can dig out AK's head and know what he is thinking.

I hope I am just being paranoid here.

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